Does She Want Your Guy?
In so many arenas women are pitted against each other. It has even become a common event for women in the same family, even mother and daughter to go against one another. Every aspect of a woman’s life has the potential to become a competition. A lot of women seem to be going along with this degrading spectacle. But they may have no idea how much they are actually hurting themselves and the ones they love.
To get a ringside seat of this show in jealousy and envy, all you really have to do is leave your house. In every mall, club, and even grocery store, you will bear witness to the lack of respect and blatant hate that some women express to each other. It seems like women are slowly being conditioned, or conditioning themselves to turn against each other.
One of the most frequent violations that women perpetrate against each other is crossing the line with another woman’s man.
There is no woman who wants to experience losing her man to another woman. Any woman will acknowledge that this would be a very painful experience and a deep betrayal. The irony of this truth is that, even the women who are adamant that having anything to do with a man who is already taken, constitutes near blasphemy, will actively engage in seducing a man who is not available. Sometimes the mere fact that a man is taken is what makes him so appealing.
Fortunately, not all women think this way, and the ones who do are usually found out for the insecure pitiful creatures that they are. But for those women who still believe in sisterhood and standing together with other women to make each other stronger, they have to constantly watch their backs, against those do not. And they have become quite precise at identifying which women not to ever trust.
When a woman is out with her man, her attention is instinctively called to women who are presenting themselves as threats to her relationship. If the man is trustworthy and respectful, he will be oblivious to what this scandalous woman is doing, but for maybe a brief glance in her direction, if she is attractive. That is as far as it will go, for him; but his partner will be continually reminded of exactly what is out there waiting to pounce on her man.
There is a big difference between admiring a good looking man, and making a play for him. Most men will not recognize the difference immediately, but a woman knows it the second she sees it.
When a woman admires a man who is taken, it is usually seen as a compliment by his wife or girlfriend. But when the admiration is done in a way to catch the attention of that man, the admirer has more in mind than simply giving a compliment. Anytime a woman finds ways to put herself in the inner circle of a man’s life, she is making a play for him. If a woman offers herself in any way that should be reserved only for the woman he is already with, she is purposefully trying to take him away; and women do know what is reserved for intimate relationships. When a woman finds out your guy is taken she will not usually pursue having any type of relationship with him, even platonic, unless she does want to take your guy.