Why Some Women Cheat
Men and women are very different in how they think and express what they think. Women not only express their thoughts differently than men, but they also express their feelings and needs in a very different way than men do. But despite their differences, all men and woman have one thing in common, they are human.
People share a lot of the same needs, desires, and dreams. The need for food, clothing, and shelter are instinctive. So is the need to be understood and loved. Being loved and understood is so essential to some, that it is possible for it to over shadow, the more immediate, needs of food and shelter, at times.
Women equate being loved with having sex, much more than men do. Not only for the physical act of it, but for the attention it brings to them during the act. Generally speaking women prefer engaging in sex with someone they love and want to have a long term relationship with. When a woman shares her body with another, during sex, she is also making a commitment with her heart and her mind as well. Within a relationship that is established as exclusive, most women do not find it difficult to remain faithful to their partner. Women’s bodies usually follow their hearts. But there are a few things that will cause a woman to cheat.
Women have the tendency to stay in relationships where their needs are not being fulfilled, much longer than men. They are the nurturer and want to fix things. Women will allow themselves to be pushed aside and ignored, emotionally, for a long time before they consider finding the attention they crave with somebody else. But when they are convinced they have tried everything they can, and still do not get the attention and affirmation that they need, they become open to finding it elsewhere.
From the time a woman is just a little girl, she is told she is beautiful. Her daddy’s princess. As she grows she finds that, feeling beautiful, is very close to feeling loved. If a woman’s partner is not making her feel beautiful, attractive, and adored, it feels like something’s missing. Some women will go and seek to fill that void where they can find it.
Just as intense as a woman’s desire to feel loved and wanted is, almost stronger, is her desire to give that love and attention back. It is frustrating for a woman who has a partner that is not receptive to receiving love and affection. If her partner consistently deprives a woman from lavishing her love and appreciation, in her own expression, it will be seen and felt as a blatant rejection, by her. After enough such rejections a woman will feel compelled to prove to herself, that she is desirable, by finding somebody who will not reject her.
If women probe deep enough they will usually find, that their reasons for cheating stem from a void they are feeling within their heart. Cheating may not be the best solution, but for some women it is the catalyst needed to bring some type of change to their unsatisfying situation.